I woke up this morning with a very NC-17 version of “Do You Wanna Build a Snowman” from Frozen drifting through my brain.
A part of me is appalled.
A part of me really wishes I could remember the lyrics.
make you feel?
I’ve asked that a bunch of times — created a bunch of image memes — and today I have two new ones! Which one do you think gets it right? Continue reading
So since a few of my recent books (and some that are in the works) feature that sex act known as pegging, I’ve been doing research. Ah, the joys of being a smutsmith! 😀
In any case, I happened to come across this less-click-baity-y-than-usual Buzzfeed article that I thought you might find of interest:
Here’s What Pegging Is And How To Try It
You may have noticed that the sex showing up in mainstream pop culture lately has been getting a little more…interesting.
In the past year alone, kink hit it big with Fifty Shades of Grey, Mindy & Danny navigated the complications of anal sex…
…and in their most recent season, the women of Broad City brought pegging into the discussion.
Which might raise some questions. For instance, what exactly is pegging? And what should you know if you’re interested in trying it?
So glad you asked!
Pegging has a very specific definition: a woman anally penetrating a man while wearing a strap-on dildo.
And although people may well have been doing this since ancient man first put a finger in his own butt, the term has only been around since Dan Savage held a contest in 2001 to come up with a word for that particular act.
While “punting” and “bobbing” were also in the running, “pegging” was the clear winner with 43% of the vote!
The contest thing was new to me! i didn’t realize the term was that recent!
In any case, I found the rest of the article to be fun, even-handed, and informative:
Because it’s good to remember that we eroticists have our own protest march:
Bless you, Tom Lehrer. You are a wonderfully funny, wonderfully twisted human being.
I keep asking how reading erotica makes you feel — here’s the lovely adult film star Stoya giving us a wonderful… demonstration: Continue reading